That said, having things in common can be particularly useful when dating in later life, suggests relationship expert Tina Wilson. “It can be advantageous to have things in common when dating people who are 50 plus. You may have greater disposable income if your children have left home, or you’ve paid your mortgage off so you will want a potential partner that can match that. Underpinning all of this is strong family values and empathy and understanding of others. A caring and attentive partner who shares the same core values as you will override any hobby you may have in common.”